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How does my hearing loss affect my spouse?

If you have hearing difficulties, you’re not experiencing them alone. Hearing loss is a family affair. Learn how your hearing loss may be affecting the person closest to you — and what you can do.

Has your beloved asked you one, two, or a ton of times to turn the TV down? It’s not uncommon when a significant other has hearing loss. In fact, it’s one of the early signs of hearing problems.

Untreated hearing loss may mean your sweetheart also has to:

  • Speak at louder volumes to help you follow
    the discussion
  • Repeat themselves often, which can feel
    frustrating and tiring
  • Serve as a constant go-between to explain
    what others are saying

Spouses have reported stress, isolation, and other challenges, according to research. Poor hearing can lead to perception that the other person isn’t listening or engaged. It can all add a strain on the relationship.

The good news? Adults treated for hearing loss report significant improvement in relationships — and so do the people who love them.

Here are some steps you can take:

  • If loved ones are complaining about your TV volume, schedule a hearing exam.
  • Already have hearing aids? Wear them regularly and practice good maintenance.
  • Explore your hearing aids’ streaming capabilities, sending customized audio directly to your ears — without changing the volume for everybody else.
  • Speak honestly about how hearing loss affects both of you — and how you can support each other.